Unforgiveness
- taiwotruthseekers
- Sep 1, 2025
- 19 min read
Updated: Nov 15, 2025

Why are you holding on to that wrong or hurt as if Father YAH does not exist? Do you not know that He will give you justice if you ask Him? Unforgiveness will always lead you to witchcraft because Satan and his demons are the source of unforgiveness. Why carry that hurt that even the one who hurt you has forgotten? Is that not tormenting to you? Why do you not see Father YAH’s justice as the way to get your healing? Nothing good ever comes out of unforgiveness and it also hinders your prayers from being answered. Jesus said: And whenever you stand praying, if you find that you carry something in your heart against another person, release him or her and forgive him or her so that your Father in heaven will also release you and forgive you of your faults. But if you will not release forgiveness, don’t expect your Father in heaven to release you from your misdeeds (Mar 11:25-26 TPT).” Why is unforgiveness very common? It is because many people do not know the beauty of forgiveness or understand forgiveness. I would tell you about forgiveness right after we talk about unforgiveness. Now, let us take a Biblical lesson on unforgiveness to help us understand it better.
A Lesson on Unforgiveness
Jesus tells us about unforgiveness with this parable when Apostle Peter wanted to learn about forgiveness: Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, when someone won't stop doing wrong to me, how many times must I forgive them? Seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, you must forgive them more than seven times. You must continue to forgive them even if they do wrong to you seventy-seven times." "So God's kingdom is like a king who decided to collect the money his servants owed him. The king began to collect his money. One servant owed him several thousand pounds of silver. He was not able to pay the money to his master, the king. So the master ordered that he and everything he owned be sold, even his wife and children. The money would be used to pay the king what the servant owed. "But the servant fell on his knees and begged, 'Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.' The master felt sorry for him. So he told the servant he did not have to pay. He let him go free. "Later, that same servant found another servant who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him around the neck and said, 'Pay me the money you owe me!' "The other servant fell on his knees and begged him, 'Be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.' "But the first servant refused to be patient. He told the judge that the other servant owed him money, and that servant was put in jail until he could pay everything he owed. All the other servants saw what happened. They felt very sorry for the man. So they went and told their master everything that happened. "Then the master called his servant in and said, 'You evil servant. You begged me to forgive your debt, and I said you did not have to pay anything! So you should have given that other man who serves with you the same mercy I gave you.' The master was very angry, so he put the servant in jail to be punished. And he had to stay in jail until he could pay everything he owed. "This king did the same as my heavenly Father will do to you. You must forgive your brother or sister with all your heart, or my heavenly Father will not forgive you (Mat 18:21-35 ERV)." In this story, we see that forgiveness was given to a servant who pretended to be sorry before his master but could not forgive another servant when a similar thing he did to his master was done to him. Forgiveness given is just like mercy given whether deserved or undeserved. Therefore, whenever you get forgiveness for your wrong, you need to pay it forward to also forgive others. It is in forgiving others that you make yourself a candidate for Father YAH’s forgiveness. Now you see that forgiveness is like sowing and reaping. This is why similar to forgiveness, Jesus said this about mercy: Great blessings belong to those who show mercy to others. Mercy will be given to them (Mat 5:7 ERV).
If we just learnt how important forgiveness is then why is unforgiveness found among Jesus’ flock? Next, let us see how Jesus hates unforgiveness among His flock. What was His command?
Unforgiveness in the Church of Christ
Unforgiveness in the Church of Christ is a sin. Jesus taught about reconciliation among believers and how the unforgiving believer is an unbeliever: If your brother or sister in God's family does something wrong, go and tell them what they did wrong. Do this when you are alone with them. If they listen to you, then you have helped them to be your brother or sister again. But if they refuse to listen, go to them again and take one or two people with you. Then there will be two or three people who will be able to tell all that happened. If they refuse to listen to them, tell the church. And if they refuse to listen to the church, treat them as you would treat someone who does not know God or who is a tax collector. "I can assure you that when you speak judgment here on earth, it will be God's judgment. And when you promise forgiveness here on earth, it will be God's forgiveness (Mat 18:15-18 ERV). In Jesus’ command of forgiveness in His Church, we see how many attempts He prescribes to genuinely seek forgiveness and how we should treat those who refuse to give forgiveness when those attempts have been exhausted. So, it is not one endless journey as many have preached to encourage the unforgiving one to feel special. No!
Unforgiveness is a breeding ground for hatred in a believer, and hating another believer is a sin. For this reason, Apostle John said the following: Someone might say, "I am in the light," but if they hate any of their brothers or sisters in God's family, they are still in the darkness. Those who love their brothers and sisters live in the light, and there is nothing in them that will make them do wrong. But whoever hates their brother or sister is in darkness. They live in darkness. They don't know where they are going, because the darkness has made them blind (1 Jhn 2:9-11 ERV).
Also, James said: Yes, you must show mercy to others. If you do not show mercy, then God will not show mercy to you when he judges you. But the one who shows mercy can stand without fear before the Judge (Jas 2:13 ERV).
Since each of you are part of God’s family never complain or grumble about each other so that judgment will not come on you, for the true Judge is near and very ready to appear (Jas 5:9 TPT)!
Confess and acknowledge how you have offended one another and then pray for one another to be instantly healed, for tremendous power is released through the passionate, heartfelt prayer of a godly believer (Jas 5:16 TPT)! Do not let unforgiveness hold up your prayers from being answered or your healing from taking place.
Regarding all I have spoken about unforgiveness, I leave the Church of Christ with the following words: My dearest brothers and sisters, take this to heart: Be quick to listen, but slow to speak. And be slow to become angry, for human anger is never a legitimate tool to promote God’s righteous purpose. So this is why we abandon everything morally impure and all forms of wicked conduct. Instead, with a sensitive spirit we absorb God’s Word, which has been implanted within our nature, for the Word of Life has power to continually deliver us. Don’t just listen to the Word of Truth and not respond to it, for that is the essence of self-deception. So always let his Word become like poetry written and fulfilled by your life! If you listen to the Word and don’t live out the message you hear, you become like the person who looks in the mirror of the Word to discover the reflection of his face in the beginning. You perceive how God sees you in the mirror of the Word, but then you go out and forget your divine origin. But those who set their gaze deeply into the perfecting law of liberty are fascinated by and respond to the truth they hear and are strengthened by it—they experience God’s blessing in all that they do (Jas 1:19-25 TPT)!
Now, let us take a lesson on forgiveness to show you what I meant about it being a secret key or weapon.
The Cure for Unforgiveness
The cure for unforgiveness is forgiveness. Before going into the secret to forgiveness, I would like us to take Father YAH’s example on forgiveness: Then Jesus said, "There was a man who had two sons. The younger son said to his father, 'Give me now the part of your property that I am supposed to receive someday.' So the father divided his wealth between his two sons. "A few days later the younger son gathered up all that he had and left. He traveled far away to another country, and there he wasted his money living like a fool. After he spent everything he had, there was a terrible famine throughout the country. He was hungry and needed money. So he went and got a job with one of the people who lived there. The man sent him into the fields to feed pigs. He was so hungry that he wanted to eat the food the pigs were eating. But no one gave him anything. "The son realized that he had been very foolish. He thought, 'All my father's hired workers have plenty of food. But here I am, almost dead because I have nothing to eat. I will leave and go to my father. I will say to him: Father, I have sinned against God and have done wrong to you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. But let me be like one of your hired workers.' So he left and went to his father. "While the son was still a long way off, his father saw him coming and felt sorry for him. So he ran to him and hugged and kissed him. The son said, 'Father, I have sinned against God and have done wrong to you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.' "But the father said to his servants, 'Hurry! Bring the best clothes and put them on him. Also, put a ring on his finger and good sandals on his feet. And bring our best calf and kill it so that we can celebrate with plenty to eat. My son was dead, but now he is alive again! He was lost, but now he is found!' So they began to have a party. "The older son had been out in the field. When he came near the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing. So he called to one of the servant boys and asked, 'What does all this mean?' The boy said, 'Your brother has come back, and your father killed the best calf to eat. He is happy because he has his son back safe and sound.' "The older son was angry and would not go in to the party. So his father went out and begged him to come in. But he said to his father, 'Look, for all these years I have worked like a slave for you. I have always done what you told me to do, and you never gave me even a young goat for a party with my friends. But then this son of yours comes home after wasting your money on prostitutes, and you kill the best calf for him!' "His father said to him, 'Oh, my son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But this was a day to be happy and celebrate. Your brother was dead, but now he is alive. He was lost, but now he is found (Luk 15:11-32 ERV).'" In this account, forgiveness was given by the father before it was even asked for. That is indeed selflessness! True repentance on the son’s part made forgiveness easy.
Forgiveness is one key that always works. Jesus was right when He said: Forgive our sins, just as we have forgiven those who did wrong to us (Mat 6:12 ERV).
Yes, if you forgive others for the wrongs they do to you, then your Father in heaven will also forgive your wrongs. But if you don't forgive others, then your Father in heaven will not forgive the wrongs you do (Mat 6:14-15 ERV). Forgiveness is the way you pass on your battle to Father YAH to fight. It is after you forgive that Father YAH sits in judgment to begin executing it and gives the one who hurt you what they deserve.
Forgiveness to God (Father YAH) does not mean you forget like Satan teaches. Rather, it means you have chosen not to keep it in mind yet would guard against a recurrence. Take a look at this in the Holy Bible when Father YAH said: Now, if evil people change their lives, they will live and not die. They might stop doing all the bad things they did and begin to carefully obey all my laws. They might become fair and good. God will not remember all the bad things they did. He will remember only their goodness, so they will live!" The Lord GOD says, "I don't want evil people to die. I want them to change their lives so that they can live! "Now, maybe good people might stop being good. They might change their lives and begin to do all the terrible things that evil people have done in the past. (The evil people changed, so they can live.) So if those good people change and become bad, God will not remember all the good things they did. He will remember that they turned against him and began to sin. So they will die because of their sin (Eze 18:21-24 ERV). From this scripture, you can see that Father YAH chooses to not keep it in mind, hence to let Father YAH remember you for righteousness or wickedness is your choice to make. You can see Father YAH forgiving the Hebrew remnants to regather them, while reminding them that they did evil against Him. He said: The Lord GOD says, "I want you to remember this: I am not doing these things for your good! I am doing them for my good name. Family of Israel, you should be ashamed and embarrassed about the way you lived (Eze 36:32 ERV)!" How did they live? He said: They spilled blood on the ground when they murdered people in the land. They made the land filthy with their idols, so I showed them how angry I was. I scattered them among the nations and spread them through all the lands. I gave them the punishment they deserved for the bad things they did. But even in those other nations, they ruined my good name. How? Those nations said, 'These are the LORD'S people, but they left his land.' "The people of Israel ruined my holy name wherever they went, and I felt sorry for my name. So tell the family of Israel that this is what the Lord GOD says: 'Family of Israel, you ruined my holy name in the places where you went. I am going to do something to stop this. I will not do it for your sake, Israel. I will do it for my holy name (Eze 36:18-22 ERV). Do you now see that forgiveness does not necessarily have to be deserved when given but is a way to move on and keep on your righteous path? Do you see how you can draw your strength from Father YAH to give such underserving forgiveness like He does?
In contrast to Father YAH’s view on forgiveness, Satan and his cohorts teach humans a perversion of forgiveness to let the humans become careless for a repeat of this same evil against them. Satan and his demons never forgive and they never forget. Yet, they pretend to be repentant to gain forgiveness when they are not. Now you know why the witches and Nephilims act the same way. Let us take one example of how Benhadad did this to Ahab to trick him: The rest of the Syrian army ran back to Aphek, but the town wall fell and crushed twenty-seven thousand of them. Benhadad also escaped to Aphek and hid in the back room of a house. His officials said, "Your Majesty, we've heard that Israel's kings keep their agreements. We will wrap sackcloth around our waists, put ropes around our heads, and ask Ahab to let you live." They dressed in sackcloth and put ropes on their heads, then they went to Ahab and said, "Your servant Benhadad asks you to let him live." "Is he still alive?" Ahab asked. "Benhadad is like a brother to me." Benhadad's officials were trying to figure out what Ahab was thinking, and when he said "brother," they quickly replied, "You're right! You and Benhadad are like brothers." "Go get him," Ahab said. When Benhadad came out, Ahab had him climb up into his chariot. Benhadad said, "I'll give back the towns my father took from your father. And you can have shops in Damascus, just as my father had in Samaria." Ahab replied, "If you do these things, I'll let you go free." Then they signed a peace treaty, and Ahab let Benhadad go (1 Kin 20:30-34 CEV). Father YAH who is omniscient (all-knowing) made Ahab know that it was a trick and the Syrians would not spare them if they had the chance to. The prophet said, "The LORD told you to kill Benhadad, but you let him go. Now you will die in his place, and your people will die in place of his people." Ahab went back to Samaria, angry and depressed (1 Kin 20:42-43 CEV).
The king of Syria had ordered his thirty-two chariot commanders to attack only Ahab. So when they saw Jehoshaphat in his robe, they thought he was Ahab and started to attack him. But when Jehoshaphat shouted out to them, they realized he wasn't Ahab, and they left him alone. However, during the fighting a soldier shot an arrow without even aiming, and it hit Ahab where two pieces of his armor joined. He shouted to his chariot driver, "I've been hit! Get me out of here!" The fighting lasted all day, with Ahab propped up in his chariot so he could see the Syrian troops. He bled so much that the bottom of the chariot was covered with blood, and by evening he was dead. As the sun was going down, someone in Israel's army shouted to the others, "Retreat! Go back home (1 Kin 22:31-36 CEV)!" So, do not fall into the Satanists’ trap of “forgive and forget” while they want you trusting again to repeat the same crime. Rather, take Father YAH’s nature of judging by their fruits and choosing your relationships with people by their fruits. Thus, when you forgive those humans that are non-repentant, you are choosing to forget them because you forgive them, which is a good way to use forgetting in forgiveness.
I must say that there are some wrongs that feel the hardest to forgive. However, I discovered that whenever you find it the hardest to forgive, simply ask God (Father YAH) for the grace to forgive and He will give it to you. Father YAH’s grace will help you in such hard cases where your human ability to forgive does not seem enough. It is always for your own good and peace of mind to forgive. With a genuine heart, simply say: “Father YAH, I ask that You give me the grace to forgive ------- (fill in the name). In Jesus’ name. Amen!”
Forgiveness is always for our own good. Whenever we do not forgive others we cannot make Heaven like Jesus said because we tie God’s hands to give us justice on the matter and He would not forgive you for not forgiving another person. However, God (Father YAH) made exceptions to forgiveness when He is the one who tells you that people have been marked as unforgiven because they are now His irredeemable enemies. In such cases, you still do not have any problem forgiving on your end but just do not need to hold anything against such people while you keep away from them. It is God (Father YAH) they have wronged so He would judge them.
It is worth noting that we do not forgive Satan, his demons, and Nephilim children because God (Father YAH) has marked those ones as permanently unforgiveable. Yet, for humans, you need to not let any human make unforgiveness be the sin that separates you from God (Father YAH) eternally. Do not let people turn you into who you are not. Maintain your unique you! Remember that Father YAH is the Creator and we are His created. So, He can forgive who He wants to forgive and not forgive who He does not want to forgive. However, for us (His creation), we simply align to be friends with those God (Father YAH) forgives and not keep friends with those God (Father YAH) does not forgive. This is where you understand why the angels can still talk to humans with respect and align with God’s human friends on the earth like Daniel of the Bible but are enemies to God’s enemies like the angels who wanted to kill the kings for taking Sarah and the one who killed those Assyrian soldiers that came to fight against King Hezekiah. You do not see God’s angels hang out with demons, so we too do not do the same because that is the example they set for us to have a glimpse of how God’s family works.
In sum, if there is unforgiveness still in any matter with a human, I urge you to forgive and see how fast you begin seeing God’s justice on the matter. Let go of that burden and walk free today. You would be glad you did! Whether God (Father YAH) wills for you to reconcile that relationship or not, just forgive it and let Him tell you the way forward.
I have done my best to show you Father YAH’s nature of forgiveness as His choice for every human and believer. Now, we are in the judgment section to release justice and judgment by the power of the Holy Spirit. So, I speak the following words and they become a reality now by the power of the Holy Spirit. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
Judgment
1) For every human who genuinely lets go of any wrong that has been done to them now, receive judgment on those who wronged you this very instance by the Holy Spirit of Father YAH. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I speak an eternal curse on you unrepentant one who hurt that human by the Holy Spirit now. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
2) I declare Father YAH’s special and fiercest judgment by His Holy Spirit on every spirit behind teaching humans unforgiveness now. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare that you become an example for everyone to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare an eternal curse by the Holy Spirit on Satan, his demons, the evil spirits and the Nephilims who have taught unforgiveness to humans and promote it on this earth in any way, shape or form. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
3) I declare Father YAH’s special judgment by His Holy Spirit on those humans teaching other humans unforgiveness towards other humans. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
4) I declare Father YAH’s special judgment by His Holy Spirit on everyone teaching unforgiveness to other humans in Jesus’ Church and in turn causing discord in His Church (i.e. family). In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare that you become an example for everyone to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
5) I declare Father YAH’s healing by the Holy Spirit on every human heart that has chosen to forgive now. In Jesus’ name. I declare healing to your spirit, soul and body by the Holy Spirit now. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
6) I declare a special curse by the Holy Spirit on everyone hiding behind their flock and acquaintances to cause them to fight those they do not forgive on their behalf. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare that you become an example for everyone to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
7) I declare a special curse by the Holy Spirit on any human hiding behind their friends, family members, work colleague, and the like to cause them to fight those they do not forgive on their behalf. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare that you become an example for everyone to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
8) I declare the instant judgment of death by the fire of the Holy Spirit on any human who has taken another humans’ life due to unforgiveness. In Jesus’ name. Amen! You should have asked Father YAH for help or justice in the matter instead of taking matters into your own hands. I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
9) I declare the instant judgment of death by the fire of the Holy Spirit on anyone who has hidden behind any action, activity, creation or institution to fight another human due to unforgiveness. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
10) I declare the instant judgment of death by the fire of the Holy Spirit on anyone who has hidden behind any action, activity, creation or institution to fight the Church of Christ, the Holy Spirit, Jesus and Father YAH. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
11) I declare Father YAH’s fiercest judgment of death by His flaming sword now on everyone who hid behind the Covid-19 vaccines to wipe out the Hebrews. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I declare that you become an example for everyone to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
12) I declare Father YAH’s judgment on anyone who has tricked a human to forgive them only to cause them harm. I declare the instant deaths of such people by the fire and sword of the Holy Spirit. In Jesus’ name. Amen! You will be an example for others to learn from now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
13) I declare a special judgment by the Holy Spirit on anyone who dares to teach humans to forgive those Father YAH has marked as unforgiveable like Satan, his demons, the Nephilims, and the like. In Jesus’ name. Amen! Similarly, I declare a special judgment by the Holy Spirit on anyone teaching humans to forgive and forget humans that Father YAH has marked as unforgivable. In Jesus' name. Amen! I place a special curse that is eternal by the Holy Spirit on the repeat of this crime on this earth now and until Jesus comes again. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
14) I now leave a blank cheque for Father YAH to fill for further judgment required on this matter. In Jesus’ name. Amen!



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